INTRODUCTION I've heard narcissists defined as selfish, self-centered, and angry individuals who are bound to break your heart. Yet, falling for a narcissist can be one of the most exciting rides you will ever take. These individuals can be charming, sexy, and fun-loving and they're never boring. Take, Bill Clinton for example. He's dynamic, highly intelligent, fun, sexy, confident, committed, and some would describe him as a narcissist..